I got TANF from DSHS. They are going after Chad for Child Support now. After they get him in for a paternity test. I have been a bit anxious that he will start wanting visitation. I know he will not get custody, but I really am not comfortable with him being around her. I am not angry with him anymore, but I am just uncomfortable. He is beyond negative about EVERYTHING. He is an alcoholic, he has some issues I think he needs to seek help for. I believe he is bi polar. He needs to talk to someone. He needs to seek help for alcoholism. He needs to pull himself out of this denial he lives in. HE is so down in the dumps. Who wouldn't be, with being homeless? He put himself there though. He refuses to take responsibility for anything and actually do the work to make his life better. Instead he just takes it, sits there, and cries about it. Then the pity party rolls in where everyone coddles him with a "poor Chad." The other issue I want to touch on is that he is abusive. Now I am not saying he is a woman beater. He is more on the mental abuse thing. Telling me to leave my family and not talk to them anymore because his family left him. Also, my mom got a little miffed at him over his behavior at my birthday party, so he wanted nothing to do with her and that was another reason I was to abandon my family. He was downright rude to me. He talked to me like I was stupid. When I asked him to stop talking to me like that he told me to stop asking stupid questions. It wasn't anything extreme, but it had potential. It got worse when he punched out the door. I have zero sympathy for him. Until he gets his life turned around I want him out of mine and out of Kaylee's. I am not trying to rehash anything here. I am not bitching. Just basically thinking about things. I used to get angry when I think about Chad and the things he put me through. Now I just am happy it's over.
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I got TANF from DSHS. They are going after Chad for Child Support now. After they get him in for a paternity test. I have been a bit anxious that he will start wanting visitation. I know he will not get custody, but I really am not comfortable with him being around her. I am not angry with him anymore, but I am just uncomfortable. He is beyond negative about EVERYTHING. He is an alcoholic, he has some issues I think he needs to seek help for. I believe he is bi polar. He needs to talk to someone. He needs to seek help for alcoholism. He needs to pull himself out of this denial he lives in. HE is so down in the dumps. Who wouldn't be, with being homeless? He put himself there though. He refuses to take responsibility for anything and actually do the work to make his life better. Instead he just takes it, sits there, and cries about it. Then the pity party rolls in where everyone coddles him with a "poor Chad." The other issue I want to touch on is that he is abusive. Now I am not saying he is a woman beater. He is more on the mental abuse thing. Telling me to leave my family and not talk to them anymore because his family left him. Also, my mom got a little miffed at him over his behavior at my birthday party, so he wanted nothing to do with her and that was another reason I was to abandon my family. He was downright rude to me. He talked to me like I was stupid. When I asked him to stop talking to me like that he told me to stop asking stupid questions. It wasn't anything extreme, but it had potential. It got worse when he punched out the door. I have zero sympathy for him. Until he gets his life turned around I want him out of mine and out of Kaylee's. I am not trying to rehash anything here. I am not bitching. Just basically thinking about things. I used to get angry when I think about Chad and the things he put me through. Now I just am happy it's over.
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